Prince charming

 
    Now every girl look for her prince charming who will save her and make all her dreams come true. He is the one that she dreams about every night, and each day passes , she imagines him in her mind and draw his face with her heart .

    Not only girls do this, also boys think a lot about their future wife. How she would look like? Would she love me as much as I love her? Would she provide me with happiness, intimacy and warmness ? Would she stay with me in my good times and bad ones as well? How she would raise our own children?

   Both think imagine and hope. Some take the easiest way and try to steal the heart of each and every girl he likes, saying "lets try, may be she is the one" . Forgetting that the one who provide livelihood is only Allah. Also, she forgets the popular verse in Quran "مُحْصَنَاتٍ غَيْرَ مُسَافِحَاتٍ وَلاَ مُتَّخِذَاتِ أَخْدَانٍ"  

  You, girl never ever be deceived by the" love" word.  We all love to be loved but what differs true love from others is the eternity. Who truly loves you will stay beside you in your sickness and health, in your happy times and sad ones. He will never leave you and will be beside you, providing you with safety, calmness, joy and tenderness . 

  Never be hurry . Never rush for your destiny . He will come soon in the right time and in the right place ."Just like a shoe ,if someone is meant for you , he will just fit perfectly , with no struggling, no forcing and no pain." He  is your fate . He will be your companion in life and paradise as well . So choose only the one who you wish to walk with him in your palace in paradise . choose only the one who will make you a better person , who will search deep inside you to discover what is the best in you .

 

    Trust Allah .Believe in Allah.  Who do you love more ? If you  love  Allah more than your husband and also more than yourself ,then congratulations for an ever lasting happiness and peace in life and hereafter .Focus on your target . Yes never forget  . It's PARADISE and nothing but PARADISE . You only need a husband to aid you stepping there ."فيها ما لا عين رأت و لا اذن سمعت و لا خطر علي قلب بشر" . صدق رسول الله صلي  الله عليه و سلم 

    Now what. What to do?  "Wherever I go, I see and hear about love.  All films songs..etc. are all about nothing but this love issue. Lovers are everywhere on beaches , streets and malls , and I can't wait any longer , I wish to taste this mysterious feeling " saying many people .OK Never hurry up .You will taste this feeling after you taste a better love flavor. The love of Allah.  

قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: "إن الله إذا أحب عبداً دعا له جبريل، عليه السلام، فقال: إني أحب فلانا فأحبه، قال: فيحبه جبريل، ثم ينادي في السماء
فيقول: إن الله يحب فلانا فأحبوه، فيحبه أهل السماء، قال: ثم يوضع له القبول في الأرض"

What a love . Isn't Allah worth loving ?


      Just leave all your doubts aside. Stop searching for the prince charming. Once you stop searching, be satisfied with what you have , and your heart is already full with love , yes love of Allah,you will get all what you want  .When you stop searching for your prince and make Allah the king of your heart, He will help you complete your fairytale.


written by Doaa Ayman